Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Happiness Is Very Simple

One psychologist has writen, a mature love affair must be called after 4 stages
There are: Codependent, Counter dependent, Independent, & Interdependent.
But it can be change between time, different people have different personality...

First Stage: Codependent
This is the period of love, couples hope that whenever or wherever they are can stick 2gether.

Second Stage: Counter dependent
Emotinal Stable until at least one party want 2 have more time 2 do their own things, then will find out their partner in the cold.

Third Stage: Independent
This is the second phare of the extension of the time for giving each other more space.

Last Stage: Interdependent
New life have been form, he/she will become the most important person 2 u. U all will support each other & 2gether creating ur own life. 2gether u all will not affect each other bcz they knw each other very well.

But
Most of the people cannot reach the 2nd & 3rd stage
Then juz choice to break up
It's very unfortunate
Many things will be fine as long as good communication, not many would like 2 trust each other
So the 2nd & 3rd phases will shorten the time
Falling in love wif each other is not easy thing
Don't give up so easily...

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

ummmm...
u and miao miao at which stage??
hahahaha...
love is not easy...
life is not easy...
but interesting ^^

groundgnomes said...

i also knew tat...
so i wrote this...

*chan*